Fetishes, Can They Harm Us?

What are FETISHES?  Fetishes are fantasies that people have, and sometimes practice, to keep things interesting in the bedroom.  They can go from extra playmates, to kinds of torture, and still end in seduction.  But are they harmful?

The truth is, they can be.  Forceful fetishes can go horribly wrong if taken to far, which they can be even if by accident.  Don't get me wrong, I like imagination and playful romance.  But when is it going too far.  A playful hair tug can turn into dangerous rape.  A playful torturing can lead to murder.  An extra playmate could lead to infidelity, or worse.  So, when do we know where fantasy ends and reality begins?  I'm just letting a friendly warning out for those of us that love to spice up our love lives.  Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.

Tips For Picking Up Women

Picking up women in a Bar

Approach the woman that caught your eye.  If she's drinking, buy her another when she's finished.  (Let's face it, women are easier to talk to, and encourage when they're drunk).  After the initial introductions, get her comfortable with you by complimenting her, or carrying on a full conversation.  In other words, don't tell her she's hott and ask her what sex positions she prefers.  Keep it light, show interest in her and everything she says, and respond accordingly.  Then you just might be lucky enough to get lucky.




Picking up women in a Strip Club

Not too hard, they're job is to tease you and get you excited.  But the fun begins when the allow you to tease back.  The thing about strip clubs is, with enough money, you can get anything you want.  If you can get them to even go to breakfast with you, you will probably get sex if you ask.

Picking up women in a Store

Quite a bit more difficult, but it can be done.  You could try the cart accident scenario, accidentally run into her cart with yours, then flirt mildly, then if she flirts back, step up your game.  You could also strike up a conversation in an aisle, but none of these scenarious are guaranteed, so just be yourself, unless your a jerk.




Nude Beaches
The easiest place to meet women, everyone is already comfortable with each other because they're already naked.  So it would be nothing to pick up a woman, you might even be lucky enough to have sex on the beach.

All of these tips are advice to try if you wish, but they are not always guaranteed, but they can be fun to try.

Tips To Get A Woman Sexually Stimulated In The Bedroom

1.  Long slow deep kisses (eventually use tongue).

2.  Slowly undress her while kissing down her neck leading to her cleavage and eventually to her breasts.

3.  Unhook her bra and slide it down her arms while sucking (and/or playing with) her nipples.

4.  Unbutton her pants and slide them slowly down to her ankles allowing her to step out of them.

5.  Lick you way up her leg all the way to her already moist vagina.

6.  Flick her clitoris continuously with your tongue, then slowly stick your tongue inside of her and continuously move it around inside to start her moaning.

7.  Lay her down on the bed while continuing to orally please her.

8.  As she starts to quiver, slide your penis inside her, by this time it should already be constricting as she should already be close to orgasm.

9.  Give way to you imaginations and just have fun.

These are tips guys should really listen too, it could really spice up they're sex life.

Anal Sex, Why Some Women Like It And Some Don't

Some women love anal sex, yet some don't.  Why is that?  Well, the anal cavity is not designed to fit a penis inside, yet it flexes due to the stimulation.  It generally hurts women the first few time, just as first vaginal intercourse does, yet not all women can handle it even after the first few times.  The ones that can are more succeptible to the sexual stimulation.  The anus doesn't have it own lubrication for this act, so lube or lotion is the best means of penetration.  Carressing the clitoris whily playing with the anus in any way can stimulate it enough to allow an average size penis to fit snuggly inside without too much discomfort.  There is also a spot in the anus, also in men, that allows for instant orgasm, this is why some women can orgasm continuously without a break when constant pressure from the penis is pushed into it repetitively.





Anal sex is a blessing if the man's other half is always willing to allow him to do this.  When a man orgasms inside a woman's anal canal, there is a sudden pressure that makes some women scream out in ecstasy, while others scream in pain.  If it makes them scream in pleasure, then those few men are lucky because there is nothing quite like it.  So leave some comments and let me know what you think of anal sex.

Threesomes, How Great Are They?

How fun are threesomes?  In my opinion, they're awesome.  There's something about having two women at the same time that drives most men wild.  If you are lucky to be with a woman that likes threesomes as much as you, you are one very lucky man.

It spices up a relationship when it gets mundane, plus with you wife and another woman at the same time, it isn't considered cheating.  If they both love anal sex, you've got it even better.  Nothing is better than being behind one women while she performs oral sex to another.  Plus, I know from experience that if you bring one to orgasm, the other will immediately follow.  As they both climax, the man starts to follow.  So, in my opinion, if you've never had a threesome, at least give it a try, you might like it.

Three Different Sex Positions For Virgins

Man on Top

When a woman lays down, the man climbs on top.  He then inserts his penis into her vagina and slowly begins thrusting.  This also helps stimulate the G-Spot in the woman, which will be explained later.  This position allows the man and woman to continue forplay during sex.  Such as the man suckling the nipples, the woman scratching the man's back.



Woman on Top

This position allown the woman to sit snuggly on the man's penis.  This position pushes the penis deeper into the vagina allowing much more pressure to be applied to the G-Spot, as well as, other sensitive nerve endings in the vagina.  This position allows a greater rise to orgasm for the woman, as well as, leads her up to multiorgasm.


Doggie Style

This position allows for power pumping.  This position allows the man to give constant pressure to the G-Spot as well as allows for the more fierce nature in a man during sex.  The woman grows to climax much faster than the other two styles I've explained, plus multiorgasm is almost continuously guaranteed.
G-Spot, which I will explain now, is a series of extremely sesitives nerves that once you apply the appropriate constant pressure, initiates orgasm.

Have fun virgins, this will help you understand some basic positions for your first time, so you won't be so lost.

Why Men Love A Shaved Vagaina

Why do men love shaved vaginas?  Because it's smooth to caress.  During oral sex, there's no problem with little hairs in the back of the throat.  It's not rough to the touch or real course.  You can rub the sensitive skin causing instant orgasm.

Plus, sensually, it almost turns a man on instantly.  The way the vaginal lips are showing in all their bare glory, a man just can't help himself, he just has to dive in.  It's more sensual to use your tongue on a shaved vagina because it's bare skin.  Plus, it's really sexy, and it makes for a better, more interesting sex life.

Why Men Love Anal Sex

Men love to have anal sex for several very good reasons.  One reason is that the anus is a lot tighter than the vagina. It's a lot like having sex with a virgin vagina for the first time all over again.  Because it's so tight, it brings a guy to orgasm so much quicker and sends him to even greater heights of ecstasy and feels so much better.  Plus a guy loves to ejaculate in the anus because it sends more semen out and feels so much better.

For a lot of guys, it's the thrill of experiencing something new, even if they have done it before, they're thrilled that they get do do it again.  Women who love anal sex are awsome, that just opens up something new and exciting for us guys.  I know I love anal sex.

Threesomes

If your sex life is starting to become mundane, a threesome might just spice it up.  Run the idea past your wife and see what she thinks about the idea, she just might surprise you.  Imagine lying there in bed, your wife, seductive and beautiful, walks into the room wearing nothing but her birthday suit.  Now imagine her friend, the one you always thought was so sexy, walking in completely naked.

Now imagine both women taking your penis and stroking it until it feels like your going to explode, then her friend takes it into her mouth all the way down to where it connects to your body.  Imagine both of them making out and stroking each other until they start to moan.  Now have your wife staddle your face so you can send her reeling into orgasmic pleasure with your tongue while her friend climbs onto your stiff hard penis and starts riding you like a horse.  When you get close to orgasm, they both get down and start sucking your penis again until you explode into both of their mouths.

See, threesomes can bring you closer to your partner and spice up your sex life.  Just run the idea by her, she could just possibly say yes.

Role Playing: Part I

The schoolgirl outfit has been a fantasy for guys for as long as I can remember.  It fantasizes danger and lust.  With the catholic school girl reputation, it excites a man to no end.  it's the though of a younger girl, of getting caught deflowering an innocent school girl.  It's the mystery behind what someone might say or do. It's the suspense in getting caught by a parent or sibling in the fantasy.

Some do it just because it takes them back to their school days, but the danger of getting caught drives them crazy.  It can also spice up the love life and the man can't be accused of cheating because his partner is the school girl.  Men love the idea ladies, try it and see what he does to you then.

Role Playing: Part II

The policewoman is another fantasy that gets men all worked up.  It's the thought of having sex with a police woman who arrests them for doing something very bad.  This is the fantasy where the officer handcuffs the man and does whatever she wants to him. It's the feeling of helplessness for the man, giving the officer complete control.

Being held down while a police woman takes his stiff, hard penis in her mouth and sucks everything out of him like a straw, then having her straddle him like barebacking a horse is every man's fantasy.  Just think about it ladies, he'll never look at your Double D's again. 

Role Playing: Part III

This is an exciting fantasy.  Being with a hotter than normal stripper will make any man almost blow his load in his pants.  Imagine your lady dancing on a pole just for you.  Slowly she opens her top and unclasps her bra letting her beautiful breasts bounce to freedom in front of your very eyes.  You start succling and teasing her nipples making her writhe in ecstasy.





Imagine her pulling down her G-string to reveal to you a perfectly trimmed vagina, smeeling like sweet nectar of the Gods.  Her pulling down your pants and putting your rock hard penis in her mouth and sucking with everything she's got.  Imagine her sliding you inside and riding you until both of you explode in massive mind blowing orgasms together.